Friday, 29 July 2005

Thoughts on *identity* today. A home-school dad remarked to me the
other day that homeschooled children tend to get their sense of
identity from where they fit in relation to the others in their family.
Sounds like a healthy thing. One is not expected to be the same as
everyone else. Diversity within unity. A beautiful thing.

Others who had their formative years in public school dealt with a more
dog-eat-dog environment, in which one must invent and define oneself in
other terms: academics, socially, athletically, musically, etc. 
An interesting thought...

Here in Cambridge-world I tend to identify myself with respect to my
work. But I'm no longer intelligent compared to anybody else! The best
friends are those who accept you for who you are.

3 comments:

  1. as a former home-schooler and eternal big sister, i'd have to agree with your friend's assessment! for better or for worse, that's definitely one of the biggest things that's shaped my orientation to the world! i'm often tempted to reprove and admonish other people's children! :)
    but annie, you're you - regardless of who you're compared to! and you're special! there's only one annie weeks! whether or not that annie weeks is a top scientist at Cambridge, she's a pretty neat chick!

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  2. Still short and throws like a girl though...
    thought i had to do the typical brother service of tempering that last email.
    *always here for ya*

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  3. btw, i'm one of the dogs-eating-other-dogs
    for lunch!
    yum!

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